Seeking attention has been and will remain the biggest disorder of humans. “Love” is hence ideologically termed and explained in a much more powerful way than it deserves. A member of the opposite sex pays attention and hence essentially satisfies your parasitic needs. Either your material desire to be noticed or to lead amongst your herd.

What is love but essentially that interaction between two species both seeking attention making a parasitic feast. Sex is secondary and always the motive because touch and feelings have more power than vision.

Love exists only in language. Love hence cannot be explained in words because the very feeling of being in love supersedes the existence of language.The inert happiness and the strong desire to carry out the life is love. It is not driven by existence or behaviour of a different species. It is self driven. It exists in loneliness. It grows and blooms in an anxiety to accept the parasitic nature of existence.

Marriage is popular.

For men , you get to be the father figure. The one who is in control of the family. Ideologically have subjects that you can implant your ideologies on. Toys as your progenies and to lead your own herd, your family. Your need to be the leader is fulfilled.

For women, you get the attention. Knowing someone is always there to help you and carry you through. To rationale your material existence. To provide, to make happy – to put claim on things that are yours essentially abusing your only possession ; passion.

Most marriage end – when the men have conflict in imposing and women have conflict with their passion.Hence like OSHO would say, most marriage end when the honeymoon is over.

If you pay close attention male and female are two casually immaculate but completely different species. Male with his incessantly aggressive urge to lose attention possesses a shorter attention span. Female with her indifferent propaganda of deriving satisfaction usually drives a relationship.

Hence all men are dogs. No dogs are cuter and smarter

The relationship is more symbiotic in nature than parasitic. Completely different species although have indifference (hatred) for each other still coexist and cooperate for a better sustainable environment.

So for all the women relying on feminism can sit back and rethink.  The nature of relationships is morbidly similar to elastic. If it is stretching it will bust.

Physical presence is also as intoxicating as misconstructed ”love” . Over the course of time change is the only stagnant phenomenon. If your existence does not undergo change, depression or lower productivity is evident. Hence the need for divorce, religion, prostitution and glamour. If over course of years people are still living together than it is an addictive disorder.
The say for years men have failed women.The all feminism era begins and they fight for women’s right. Up until a certain point when everyone will realise that the female has taken too much advantage this feminist propaganda and the balance of power restored. Love cannot stem when a tug of war for power is ongoing.